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August 17

参观马场

北安附近的一个老头开的马场
似乎有几十年的时间了
老头子个子很高
但是年纪真不小了
看见了大马
太可爱了
下周日就去做义工
不知道能不能顺利
能让我跟大马一起
就心满意足啦
不过还没有防泥的靴子呢
寻么着买一双?
August 15

病了

最近不知道怎么回事。回忆起来似乎是送老妈回国那天就开始了,坐地铁也有点恶心,坐车也有点恶心。消化不良,四肢无力, 上班站时间久一点右脚的前脚掌就疼痛无比。饿了就胃疼,吃饱了就开始犯恶心。还总是打嗝,似乎吃的东西消化不下去一样。今天居然连两条腿都酸痛无比,还伴着轻微的头疼。真是难受死了。
昨晚yf姐给我颈椎刮痧,刮出了黑紫黑紫的痧。但是今天也没见好转,头疼脑热的。回家量了体温,37度也正常,还以为低烧了呢。
看来是胃病啊。而且对照《求医不如求己》里中里老师所讲,前脚掌痛多半是胃经气血不足所致。真是说到了点子上。决定晚上向yf姐借来刮痧工具,刮刮胃经试一试。
唉,身体真是革命的本钱。一定要好好爱惜我的胃呀!
August 11

下午四点十分左右,知道老妈已经顺利上了飞机,我终于安下心,朝地铁走去。
心里空落落的。
生活又恢复到以往的生活,也没有她的唠叨了,不过也挺空虚。
今天不知道怎么回事,坐地铁有点头晕恶心。
可能是昨晚没睡好吧。
头疼。
回去的路上下了瓢泼大雨。
老妈朝家飞去了。
唉……
August 08

想跟大马在一起工作,真难!

这是一个好心的在马场工作的HR人员给我回的邮件,看,有多么的难!
Many thanks for your email.  I have given much thought to your dilemma!  Being totally honest, I suspect that you have the following factors that may be holding you back in gaining employment in the equine industry...

*Your academic qualifications may indicate that you are over-qualified for a trainee position (many employers will feel that you may find a lot of the work involved within the horse industry a bit too mundane for you).
*Your nationality may put some of the really old-school employers off (fear of not being able to communicate with you and vice versa, difference in culture, etc. etc.- sounds absolutely terrible I know, but sadly may be true in some cases).
*Your lack of practical experience - this is the big one.  You need to get experience at working in as many different aspects of the horse industry as you can.  No employer will turn down the offer of free labour in exchange for work experience.  This will give you valuable insight into what type of yard suits you, and which do not, but also will give the prospective employer confidence that you know what you are getting yourself into!  Good references are essential to any prospective employer.
*Getting a degree in equine science is (in my opinion) a waste of time if you ultimately wish to work at the 'sharp end' with real horses, real clients and real employers.  Getting a degree/masters in other fields is definitely not a waste of time, as this will prove that you have a broad spectrum of life skills, and these will inevitably be useful in all future walks of life.

Everyone I know who employs people to work on their yard are looking for the ideal candidate - who is intelligent, but not arrogant; quick witted, but not impatient; gentle but assertive; hard working, but not neurotic; laid-back, but not lazy; practical and physically able to do a very physically demanding job; of good personal appearance/hygiene, but not afraid to get dirty!; determined and dedicated - ready to go that extra mile in the interest of the health and well-being of their equine charges.  Many employers are not willing to take a risk of taking on someone who is 'unproven' - hence the value of gaining work experience and good references.

The equine industry in the UK is a hard industry to make a decent living.  No one does it for the money - its a passion.  As employers, we have to work very hard to make the £numbers add up. Thus, wages are low, but the non-financial rewards can be very high.  There are of course many employers who are in the industry purely to earn money - but the compromise on the welfare/status of the horses working for them, may be unacceptable - may be not!?

I really hope my essay helps.  Good luck.
 
我咬紧牙关,我牺牲金钱和时间,看看能不能有个当volunteer的机会先?……………………
August 07

悲事一桩

话说宝玉兄最要好的哥们儿辉,人见人爱,左右逢源,讨人喜欢,宝玉开玩笑就称之玲珑兄,八面玲珑嘛。为避及姓名直呼也未经本人同意,所以暂时以玲珑兄称呼。
话说玲珑兄前些日子回国去了,宝玉形单影只,煞是孤单,天天在店里孤魂野鬼般呼号盼着玲珑兄的归来。我和毓馥姐都打趣他嫁了玲珑兄算了。宝玉听了呵呵傻笑,全然不顾自己一米八五的大个配上这表情就像极了玻璃。他跟玲珑兄的感情深厚,在国外举目无亲的,友情就显得弥足珍贵。宝玉属于那种没心没肺傻乎乎像张白纸一样的孩子,玲珑兄则有分寸机灵得多。很多事情玲珑兄罩着宝玉,而宝玉做得一手好菜,生活起居照顾玲珑兄。两人都是郑州人士,来英国许多年头。一起喝酒一起闹,同玩同住的情谊令得彼此早已像双胞胎一样,能有心灵感应;又像粘连在一起的静脉曲张,想剥离彼此,只能是恐怖的手术了。
这不,谁也没成想,手术做得竟这么决绝。还是英国移民局执刀。玲珑兄回去个把月,昨天成行。宝玉早就跟祥林嫂一样从上个月念叨到玲珑兄返航前。昨天早上做open时他的内容终于由“想死他了,太无聊了”变为“再有10小时我就能见到我心爱的玲珑兄了”,并且一早上就抽疯,被我和毓馥姐埋汰一顿之后,拿着切buegutte的刀疯狂地朝无辜的西红柿一顿乱砍。我俩看得遍体生寒,决意快快离这疯子一些距离,免得殃及池鱼。
下午下班回到家做饭,我们还在想玲珑兄应该和宝玉团聚了。明天大家还早就商量好到我家来吃顿饭,为玲珑兄接风。谁知道毓馥姐晚上收到宝玉的电话,说是玲珑兄被扣在机场。我们听了大惊。来英国这许多年,签证一直是个麻烦事。年头久了大家都知道怎么一回事,真一年去找个学校读书续签谁也读不起,好几千镑的学费都贡献给白鬼子了。好在他在这边读个本科,也不算全然空壳,可七年之久恐怕他自己也记不得都是些什么学校名了。况且听大姐说他还一直把地址留的是伯明翰的,人来到北安之后也没改;而学校还是伦敦的,这就很容易引起人的怀疑。于是大家伙的心情都像打了霜的茄子,胸口里又都像堵了铅球,郁闷得很。大家有门路的问门路,有朋友的问朋友,到处想办法。还到处找律师行看能不能解决问题。但严重的是玲珑兄似乎给宝玉发短信说那些人不让他打电话。之后他就关了机,就像断了线的风筝,消息全无。估计宝玉也吓傻了,好哥们端端的在机场里出不来,他一个人坐在机场候机大厅焦急地等消息,关键时刻手机还没了电,拿了投币电话赶紧给毓馥姐打。口气里满是沮丧郁闷泄气还有没了主意的慌张。后来等了半个点,毓馥姐劝他先回来,死等也没有用的。宝玉只好坐火车回来。我们这边也问好了一个律师行,虽然贵点,也比遣送回去的好。等宝玉晚上11点多到了家,我把情况说了说。让他早上给那个律师打电话问问清楚。宝玉又说怎么要这许多钱,简直坑人,说还是明早问问他的律师。还说就担心一早就把玲珑兄遣送回国怎么办。我说不该这么快。
结果今早我一起床就给宝玉电话。宝玉说玲珑兄早上打了个电话过来说他马上要坐飞机回去了,已经来不及了。详细的我也没敢多问,一切都成定局了。这时再问他怎么不让玲珑兄找律师也白搭,别再平添了宝玉的自责,也就罢了。本来怀着的一丝希望也完全断绝了,就像风中一丝烛光,恍恍惚惚最后也没敌得住风势的强劲,只留一缕遗憾难过的轻烟在空中弥漫。宝玉哭丧的声音,无比消沉,旁人可以体会却分担不了的痛苦,只得让他自己抵挡去了。
赶紧给毓馥姐打了电话。大家都一片沉默,没了兴致。本来该是多么高兴的一天啊,却成了这等悲事!
虽然我们和玲珑兄认识不算久,可大家在一起工作,吃饭小聚也有不少乐趣,忽然碰了这事,简直令人痛心疾首啊。毕竟朋友出了这样大的事情,谁不惋惜难过呢。可怜宝玉自此之后怕是只能形单影只,孤魂野鬼样的了。唉。
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